The Evolution of Love - A lecture & tea evening with Svetlana Kolchik
What does love look like in 2026 and beyond?
What does it mean to build a family — or choose not to — in a world that’s constantly shifting?
In this special evening at Moychay Tea Culture Club, we welcome Svetlana Kolchik — journalist, bestselling author, and former deputy chief editor of Marie Claire — for a deep, open conversation on how love and relationships are evolving in the 21st century.
Her latest book, A New Family, explores the emerging formats of love and partnership — from platonic partnerships and patchwork constellations to polyamorous communities and solo parenting. Written during a time of growing censorship in Russia, the book quickly became a national bestseller and has sparked conversations across Europe about what family really means today.
🫖 As loose-leaf teas are served throughout the evening, Svetlana will share insights from her research across six countries, dozens of interviews, and her ongoing European lecture tour “The Evolution of Love.”
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During the talk, we’ll explore:
🔸 Ten emerging formats of family & relationships
🔸 What “new masculinity” looks like in modern Europe
🔸 The child-free movement — and whether it’s really new
🔸 The history of monogamy and changing views on fidelity
🔸 How love-based marriage came to be — and what alternatives are growing
🔸 What artificial intelligence may mean for intimacy and connection
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What to expect:
🔹 A thought-provoking talk in an intimate setting
🔹 Time for reflection, curiosity, and community
🔹 Tea served throughout the evening (hand-selected by Moychay)
🔹 The chance to meet Svetlana, buy her book at a special price, and get it signed
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Practical Info
📍 Location: Moychay Tea Culture Club – Rozengracht 92H, Amsterdam
📅 Date: 5 February 2026
🕕 Time: 18:30 – 20:00
🎟 Price: €35 per person
🍵 Tea: Loose-leaf tea will be served throughout the event
📘 Book: A New Family will be available for purchase & signing
Language: Russian
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A warm evening of new ideas, deep questions, and a pot of tea.
